I have been seen an old friend for a couple of weeks now. He is an interesting person, with a facinating character. We havent exactly defined our "relationship" and for some reason.. its not in my interest to do such. I feel as if i dont need to worry about that, at least not yet. Things are still under control, we just occasionally go out... make out.. and whatnot. but it doesnt mean we are bf/gf. Im not saddened by this, but what kinda worried me was what a friend told me. I mentioned to her what had been happening with him, and she wrote me an email later asking me how things worked out after, if we were bf/gf yet because thats what she was hoping... since "relationships" like ours" arent any good..
my reaction to this was:
"what??!!"
how can she say that... without having any opinions about it... its just like.. what does she know about it..? she doesnt know what we have..
but i did respond to that.. with a
"he's not my boyfriend neither do i want him as my boyfriend... we are fine with how things are now.. " and such..
she wrote back saying how she was sorry if her msg had offended me
and of course i answered with a , i just want to know why u said that in the first place,... just because she would like me to find a bf.. it doesnt necessarily mean that it needs to be him.. afterall we are just "friends"

I recently had a chat with an old friend who i hadnt been in very good speaking terms. There was a misunderstanding and it had been cleared, but things didnt exactly go back to how they were before. Anyhow, she told me she had been having some confusions bout her relationship with her boyfriend.. and i listened to what she had to say. And as a friend, i told her what i thought about it. She accepted what i told her and was going to try to talk things out with her bf. she thanked me for my words, and it made me feel loved. It sounded sincere so its good that i listened to her and afterall we are still friends. I had just forgotten how good our conversations could be and how when we talk, we reflect on so many things. As we chatted.. i too was learning from her experience.. and let her know that shes not alone.. that no matter what happened shes a strong woman and could take whatever was coming her way.